Wednesday, July 1, 2015

President and Sister Smith have arrived

 Hello everyone! This week was awesome! It was such a great week and the next few days will be super awesome as well. 
On Friday we are going to MLC and then the Yankees game right after so I hope you all watch it and look for me! ;) I am so excited! It will be awesome. Sadly we have to leave at 9pm or at the 7th inning stretch, whichever comes first. But I think I'd rather leave early than get shot in the Bronx. We probably won't get home until midnight anyways and so it will probably be good to leave early. It will be fun being there and hearing Motab (Mormon Tabernacle Choir)sing at the beginning and all that good stuff. So watch it. It will be awesome! 
This week was good. We had a lot to do taking over the elders people and all that. It's been busy so that's always good. 
Okay so I stole this from Westins weekly letter but check out- Beta.mormon.org and share it with all your friends. Honestly We never knew it existed but it is the coolest thing. So give it to all the neighbors and whatnot. You got it! 
  
THURSDAY 
So I went to the chiropractor and I asked how my neck became like this and he said that it could have happened at birth or anytime in between. It could have happened by reading too much or playing the piano too long(I told him that's not what happened because I've never been much of a reader and I quit piano) or by getting into a car accident, while playing sports, or just tweaking it weird sometime. Many different things. So no, it's not the mission that did this to my neck. Anyway, tomorrow I go back and he is going to "fit me for a pillow." I guess he is going to tell me what  temprapedic pillow I should get depending on my size and how I sleep. I didn't know that was a thing. But anyway, I'll be getting that so that will be nice. He also said that it will take months to recover completely but that I am making progress. As we drove home I really thought about that timing and how perfect it is. I am so thankful God guided me to the chiropractor now so that I can get the help needed for free.
Afterwards we looked up Amanda who we met last week and had a lesson with her. She is so prepared it's incredible. She told us that they have been looking for a church to go to that is family friendly and that she can feel at home in. We explained a whole lot about the church and how it works and we reviewed the family proclamation (she read it with her husband because we gave it to her the first time) and then we explained what we do as missionaries and taught the restoration. She absolutely loved it. Sadly she is moving out of our mission soon but still, she is so prepared and awesome. She explained how she knows God sent us to her right when she was questioning their last religion most. It's awesome because we were teaching one of her neighbors for the longest time and she wasn't progressing but then that woman stopped getting back to us. So we really feel we had to hold on and continue meeting with that woman until Amanda and her family were ready to listen to our message. 
Later, We met with another awesome less active member named Jody who was having a realllly hard week and day. We ended up just listening to her cry and talk and then we got her mind off it all by picking cherries from her cherry tree and eating them and other fruit. Then we stayed for dinner and had ice cream with her and her son Mark who was just baptized a year ago right before he went to college. It was good to help them out. By the end she was laughing and having a good time. 

FRIDAY
We had a zone training in he morning and it was really fun. We set it up and taught it all with the ZLs and it turned out really successful. 
Later we Took a girl who just got back from her mission in Ukraine out with us to teach. Her name is kaylee. So we took kaylee to our investigator named Cassie and then to an investigator named Hilal. It was really cool though because Cassie knows kaylees sister and apparently in her dream that night she was at the mall and one of the stores was named after kaylees sister. So she thought that was weird that kaylee came with us this time, haha but anyway, Cassie knows Chelsea (the other girl we are teaching) because they go to the same church. It's a Small world here! 
We Got yelled at a lot while Tracting too. It was really sad. People were really mean. One lady told us that we really should forget about what our families believe and what the bible or Book of Mormon say and just ask God to give us a sign of Him and direction from Him and that we need to put God above everything and then she told us she would pray for us so that we could get some truth and guidance from God so that we can have the faith to leave the church and go to hers instead. It was weird! After that whole Tracting experience we were just not feeling too hot. We were both just tired, drained and hungry and just frustrated but luckily we had texted a member in our ward and told her we didn't have dinner and asked if we could come by for a snack but of course she said come for dinner, so we did and that made everything better because she rocks. She's the best. I love her. But hey, everyone has the chance to accept or reject the gospel so it's all good! 

SATURDAY
We got to go to a baby shower in the morning for one of the less actives we are teaching and it was really fun! We played little baby shower games and had a yummy brunch. We didn't stay too long but it was really fun while we were there.
Later we got to teach Maurisa. We met her two weeks ago at the grocery store. She is awesome. We ended up just teaching her on Facebook because it was pouring rain and we planned to meet outside. It was cool though because we were able to send her some links to different Mormon messages and I'm a Mormon videos that really related to her and that she asked about. It was cool though. We also set up to see her Monday.(so go to Monday to read more)😀😀
We also stopped by and gave a Book of Mormon to Jay! He was so excited. We went through all the pictures with him at the beginning and explained it to him and he promised to read from it, and he did! He is loving everything he is learning. He will probably be baptized on August 1st.  Then he will go home and baptize his family and then they will all get sealed together for time and all eternity in the temple and live happily ever after. 

SUNDAY
We had a zone fast for President and Sister Smith and their family who flew in on Monday! It was really awesome. They are so cool. I'll tell you more about them on Tuesday! Anyway, we were asked literally last minute to teach sunbeams. Wow that was an adventure haha it was so much fun though. We sang songs, and had a lesson on families, and had a snack and played some games. It's amazing how much you can do with sunbeams in an hour. When their attention span is so short you have to think of 4000 things to do! When we went to get water everyone had to walk like a penguin and keep there mouth like a turtle. Obviously so that they couldn't run or talk. They thought it was so cool. Later when Sister Groberg was drawing a family on the board and they were guessing what it was, all they could guess was a penguin or turtle so I guess that stuck! It was a fun class. We sang happy birthday at the end too and then they had to guess her age. I'll send you a video of that. The little boy that said the prayer prayed that his dad would pick him up after class and that Declans mom would pick him up after class. Haha kids are the best! 

Oh this is cool even though it should go under Tuesday. So last week we visited a less active family that we have been working with. So they have been coming to just the sacrament meeting for about a month now. So we asked if they would come all three hours(they normally say no). But this time they said that they didn't have enough gas so they couldn't make it. So as representatives of Jesus Christ we promised them that if they made the effort and came to church and stayed all 3 hours that they would have enough gas to get to work and back everyday through Thursday (tomorrow). At first one of the girls was really against staying all three hours. She says there are better things she could be doing. But, They accepted because the grandma loves church and all that. So we got them a ride to church and they happily stayed all 3 hours. Well Tuesday night they told us that the gas gauge hasn't moved at all and they are still going strong with gas and they know that that is the Lord blessing them for going to church. Sooo, that's pretty cool. Go to church always everyone! It brings miracles. Really. 

MONDAY
Monday was the coolest. We took Kaylee(return missionary who just got home from Ukraine) out with us again. We went to two of our investigators with her and then went tracting with her and found a new investigator. They lessons were SO awesome. She is so solid in adding her testimony at the perfect moment and teaching exactly what they need too. But the coolest thing was that as we were tracting on this random street really far away, a guy that we met two weeks ago (joe) on the completely opposite side of town drove by and stopped and jokingly said "are you guys just recruiting everyone?!" And then we laughed and said something back and then he said "I didn't go to church on Sunday, but I went on the website you gave me and I want to come to church this Sunday." Pretty much we needed to be on that street to see joe again! Anyway the rest of the day was awesome too because taking members out is always awesome! 

TUESDAY
So we headed to Ossining where we met two of our sisters (sister kovac and her new companion who she is training, sister jones). We had lunch with them and had a little interview to see how they are doing. They are awesome. Sister jones is just really overwhelmed beings new missionary which is completely normal so it was good! Then we went and met the Smiths!!!

Oh my goodness!! It was the coolest thing! I LOVE the Smiths! They are SO cool. President is super young. Something funny is that he woke the APs up to go running with him the first morning he was here haha. He has done 3 iron mans and he runs a lot. Each of the kids gave a talk and told us about themselves a little bit. Cute 11 year old William is an avid BYU fan so he's pretty cool. They are all so excited to be here. So they have lived in Texas the last 14 years and before that they lived in SLC. The Smiths actually were in the same stake or Ward or something growing up and then served in the same mission but only saw each other once and weren't really friends at that point and then two years after their mission they ran into each other at a dance and started dating from there. (The full story is longer but that's he gist of it). President smith was in the healthcare business and was a 3rd party administrator...and a lot of other things. He had like a thousand companies that he built up and then sold. And most recently He is the one that handles prescriptions for the church and other organizations and ya..everything like that. A lot of it was way over our heads but that's what I got!...pretty much he is the one that allows Drugs for everyone! I'm in good hands ;) 
Anyway, this is SWEET. over the past week they were able to hear from 9 of 12 apostles in person and the entire first presidency was there as well teaching them! BUT this is the cool part.  Elder perry talked to them via video!!! He Made the video a few days before he passed away. Sister Smith said in the video he was vibrant and excited about the work and the future. Goodness he is so cool! 
As they talked to us the Spirit was SO strong just confirming that they need to be here right now with each of us. I know that I was called to serve with them! They seriously are amazing. I can't even describe how strong the Spirit was. Fasting for them and then getting that overwhelming confirmation that this is right was incredible. I just want to spend a month in the mission home with em getting to know them more. Of course we miss the Morgan's but it's okay because the Smiths are great! 

WEDNESDAY
so today is sister Grobergs birthday. We had breakfast with a member today and then did shopping and now we are at a zone activity. We are having a blow dart war. We have yard long PVC pipes and nerf darts and have all these tables set up to hide behind. It's actually really fun surprisingly haha there is a secret medic for each side to save the people who get shot. That doesn't really explain it, but it's still fun. Things missionaries upstate do for fun. It's great. 


Something that I loved this week is Jacob 4:3-"Now in this thing we do rejoice; and we labor diligently to engraven these words upon plates, hoping that our beloved brethren and our children will receive them with thankful hearts, and look upon them that they may learn with joy and not with sorrow, neither with contempt, concerning their first parents."
I thought about how much Joy I find from the scriptures now. I LOVE reading them. I want to just sit down and study the Book of Mormon and Bible all day and learn from the. I also thought about how I didn't always read the scriptures with joy and a thankful heart. At times I would just do it to do it because I knew it was good or because . But I have really been trying to look to my scripture reading each day with excitement and gratitude for all the hard work put into creating the plates and then translating them. I know it wasn't easy, but it is easy for us to read them and feast upon them. Not just nibble, feast. We have to. The words are written for US. It's incredible. The words written in the Book of Mormon and the Spirit that comes from them have changed my life. I love this gospel. I know the Book of Mormon is true and that this gospel is true.

I love you all so much! Have a fabulous week and happy Fourth of July!! 

Love, 

Sister Tanner <3
President and Sister Smith
more Pics,
P-Day Dart Wars


Fun teaching the Sunbeams!

Meeting with Sister Jones and Kovac and my companion Sister Groberg


Thursday, June 25, 2015

A whole bunch of cookies...

Hello again! Well transfers are today. It's President and Sister Morgan's last day, and my trainer, Sister Orme, goes home today too! Sister Groberg and I are staying together so I'll be killing her here! (That means it's her last cycle then she goes home). Buuuut, the elders (in our ward) area is getting shut down because there isn't as many missionaries coming out right now, so that means we are taking over their people as well. It will be rough trying to find a bunch of women to come to lessons with us so that we can teach men but it will be good! I'm excited. I know this cycle will fly by since its sister Grobergs last one.

WEDNESDAY
We were driving to a less actives to go fishing and have a BBQ when we remembered that we told her we would bring some BBQ chips. So we stopped at the store on the way and the cashier was looking at our tags. So we asked her if she has seen missionaries before. turns out, she has been wanting to learn more about the church and has been wanting to come to church she just didn't know where it was. So she gave us her number and all that good stuff. She is awesome. Her name is Maurisa.
Then we went Fishing...sorta. I mean, who has time to fish on pday? There is no time to sit and fish! So we mostly just took pictures, put our feet in the water, and had fun. We fished for like 15 minutes haha it was fun though!
At night we went and visited a lady we tracted into named Nanette. She is super open to a lot of things and super closed off to others. It was good though. She told us about how we knocked right when she needed us and how she knows God sent us there. The spirit was so strong throughout the entire lesson so it was wonderful.

THURSDAY
We made a whole bunch of cookies during weekly planning to go give to investigators, potential investigators, less active members and members. Food is the way to people's hearts! we made oatmeal chocolate chip cookies too so of course they were delicious.
We had a few interesting lessons and got yelled at a ton while Tracting. It was a weird day to say the least. Haha
We stopped by our favorite members house to get some water really quick and they ended up feeding us dinner since we didn't have an appointment. Just the moms and their kids were home. They were so mad at us haha they were like "you don't have dinner and you didn't call! Sit down, you aren't leaving until you eat!" And we told them we had cookies and fruit in the car but they said that wasn't acceptable for dinner. It's two young families that live there. One family is from Brazil and the other from Mexico. They both went to byu with their husbands and now their husbands are working together here at IBM for the summer. They are so awesome. we help them with their English. It's good but not perfect. They have both lived in the U.S. For about 2 years. Anyway, they ended up feeding us a ton and then cake. It was all delicious but they said our punishment for not telling them was that we had to eat a lot. Next time we will tell them :)

FRIDAY
We were suppose to go on a hike with an investigator but she cancelled last minute. Lame. Anyway, we found an awesome new family with like 12 thousand children. Except they prefer church and everything in Spanish...so we had to give them to the Hermanas. But they are awesome. We tracted into them and they let us in to teach the whole family. The spirit was so strong and they loved it. So that was cool :)
SATURDAY
We met an awesome new family while Tracting. We decided to do some family home evening Tracting. It was awesome. The family consists of a mom who was catholic and converted to baptist and a husband who was Jewish and converted to baptist and then two little kids. She is super open though so hopefully her husband doesn't shut us down haha. Her name is Amanda. She said we can come back and teach her more and also come back and do a family night with them to teach them how it works.
We also got to teach Jamie (the investigating family with the two cute boys we play with) and it was awesome. We brought a member with us and we taught the whole restoration. It went really well. Afterwards we played with the boys and the member we brought talked to Jamie for like 30 minutes and fellowshipped her so hard it was the best. We gave them cookies as well. Jamie and Max love that we play with their kids so we try to a lot. When we were leaving the boys were like "mom, I don't want them to leave! They are fun!" Haha it was so cute.

SUNDAY
HAPPY FATHERS DAY!!
We got to teach young women's which was super fun just remembering the good old days of personal progress haha
But when we went Tracting in the rain we prayed to find the elect. We had really been seeking out more solid investigators. Well we found this super awesome guy who was wearing a Utah shirt. At first we thought he was going to be a member but he isn't. His named Jay and he is from the Philippines and is here for 6 months staying with his brother who is catholic. In the Philippines he lives next door to the missionaries and he works with a man in Utah who is mormon. When he went to Utah the boss took him to all the church stuff with his wife. He asked us why his boss didn't ask him to meet with missionaries and we said we didn't know why and so he came to the conclusion that his boss is waiting for him to ask. Anyways, it was awesome. We explained what we do and didn't teach him a ton of stuff but mostly just shared our testimonies and invited him to church and to meet with us Again.  He agreed to meet with us again so we did on Tuesday (so make sure you read Tuesday)!

MONDAY
While Tracting We met this super awesome (who use to be catholic and is now semi Buddhist) guy named Gee who is probably like 22 or 23ish and we had a really cool convo with him. He was really open to hearing and learning more. As we taught him he asked a lot of awesome questions and you could tell he felt the spirit as we spoke. We invited him to church and to go on Mormon.org and all that good stuff and he really sounded like he would. Who knows. But He filled up our water bottles for us and then we left. As soon as we left his house and were at the next house, his parents drove up. It was cool to see the Lord guide us to his house first, just in time before his parents got home. If they were there we probably wouldn't have been able to teach Gee because the parents are hard core catholic he said.
We had a cool lesson with Chelsea. She is trying to figure out which church to get baptized in. She wants to get baptized in this church but her parents don't want her to. They want her to be baptized in their church. She really wants to make them happy because she is technically their niece and she just wants them to accept her and be proud of her. It's sad. She's so awesome. But she is moving in 2.5 weeks so hopefully her not living with her parents will help her to do what she wants. She is currently writing a poem about how she feels so she can try to decide where God wants her. We figured it would be good because that is how she expresses herself and so it came to mind as we were trying to help her see her answer.
We had dinner with a less active family and they were so excited, they made things for dinner that they hadn't made in years because it took a lot of work but they loved it. It was so cool to see them open up to us and be excited for us to come back. They asked when they can feed us again as well so that was cool.

TUESDAY
Alright we had the coolest lesson ever with Jay! He is so golden! We asked a member to come who is a recent convert of about a year. 1 because we can't teach him alone and 2. They are super similar. So here is what happened. Jay wanted to meet at the church since he is staying at his brothers. So Edgar went and picked him up, we went to the house too but in a separate car just so we could introduce them really quick. Well Jay got into the car with Edgar who at that moment was a complete stranger. Talk about trust. So we met at the church and started the lesson and Edgar started telling Jay how hard this past year has been and how hard it is being a member of the church and all this stuff. And we were just thinking "ohhh noo. What is happening." Let me tell you, I never prayed so hard in my life during a lesson. I was praying that Jay would feel the spirit no matter what was said and that Edgar would say the right things. He kept going on and on about how he had to give up so many things and how people got mad at him and teased him for it all.  And of course that sister Groberg and I would say the right thing too. Well Jay loved it all. It was exactly what Jay needed. He thanked Edgar for his testimony and was nearly in tears. Jay told us that he reached the peak of his career once he became captain of the ship he is on and he has all these great things yet he still feels like something is missing and he thinks maybe this is it. He said he has a void that he wants to fill but he hasn't been able to figure it out yet. And it was cool because Edgar was just so real with him because it's true, the gospel doesn't make everyone else happy for you and doesn't take away your challenges, it just helps provide that direction and strength you need through those times. Jay said he will get baptized when he knows it's true. Actually it turns out that his family met with missionaries for like 3 months until his dad told them never to come back but Jay was young at the time so didn't know what was happening. Jay said the closing prayer as well and it was the coolest first prayer ever. He asked God to help him understand everything he reads in the restoration pamphlet and to know if our message is true and just other stuff that helped make it even more incredible. We were so blown away by the whole thing. I wish you all could have been there. Well then that would be intimidating, but I wish it could have been recorded or something. It was awesome. I love being a missionary and I love teaching the gospel! God knows what He is doing.

WEDNESDAY
Today is transfers! President Morgan and Sister Morgan leave tomorrow! Or maybe friday. Anyway, President told me they are going to California in a couple months and so he started talking to me about Main Street and I told him that's where I live just two miles away so he asked if it was 2 miles back in and I said no it was south and he asked if it was by the power plant so I told him ya it's a half a mile back from the beach on the same street as the power plant and he got excited and said he knows exactly where we live. So then they started talking about the shops and about dukes and hula pie so I told him that you guys will take them to get some hula pie. He liked that idea. And then I gave him your number and address :) hula pie on you! Oh and turns out President has a time share at the Marriott in Maui too and they go in November a lot of times toooo! And they have a condo in Sans of Kahana in Maui (wherever that is) as well. So they are pretty cool.

On Sunday we talked about Christ and some of His attributes as I'm sure many of you did at church. I really loved talking about how Christ never put himself down. He never sought approval from others. He always used his energy to the fullest in the best way possible. He never rushed around from appointment to appointment. He spent time with people and was so calm and never stressed. He never begged people to follow Him or to listen to his words. He taught the humble, elect and prepared. He didn't cast pearls before swine (Matthew 7:6). He taught those who wanted to listen and learn. Sister Groberg and I thought a lot about that and so we implemented that into our work to make sure we aren't rushing too much and that we are really just spending time finding the elect. Time is so precious especially on a mission and so we can't waste time on awesome families who will be members in 20 years, but rather we have to find those who need us today. It's really brings the most joy when we do find the elect as well. I've never been happier than when I am teaching the gospel. This gospel is true. Gods plan for each of us is perfect. There are so many people who are prepared and ready to receive the gospel. It's up to you and me to find them. President Monson said, "Now is the time for members and missionaries to come together, to work together, to labor in the Lords vineyard to bring souls unto Him."


I love you all so much!! Have a fabulous week! Xoxox

Love,
Sister Tanner <3









Wednesday, June 17, 2015

Authorized to Use Facebook Again

Hello again! How were the birthdays this week??

Happy Father's Day on Sunday Dad!! I love you!! Sorry that I can't skype you like we do for Mother's Day...Sometimes it's rough being a dad..

So this week was good. Last week was rough because we were gone out of our area so much and so our numbers for the week turned out terrible and we felt real bad so we recommitted to doing better this week and it's been awesome. We are on a mission wide "go super hard" kind of week because it is President and Sister Morgan's last full week! So we want to send them out with miracles and welcome President and Sister Smith with miracles. Of course we should always work crazy hard, but even more so this week. It's awesome!

Wednesday:
Okay last week pday was so much fun! So I went to the temple with the sisters that are serving in the ward I started in, Manhattan 1st. And that of course was wonderful. And then after the temple we went and got Belgium waffles from the waffle truck which was heaven of course. And I got to talk to them all about the people I love and miss.
Then I found out that Barbara is getting baptized on the 20th or maybe 27th so I get to skype into that and I am stoked!! And then after waffles we emailed and then I switched and hung out with sister Rasmussen(MTC comp) and her comp. which I love them both so so much! And we went to the roof of the building by the temple (the one with the cool view that I sent a pic of last week) and then we went to shake shack and had dinner. I felt so fat. But don't worry, It was my feast before I began 6 months to slim. So now I'm working out harddd. Anyway, so then after we unsplit and all that good stuff we got a text from our investigator Chelsea who has a bap date for June 28th said "I think I want to get baptized sooner :)" so she asked if she could get baptized. We SO excited for her. She is moving though so she will actually get baptized there since she isn't quite ready yet. Anyway, we ended up talking to some awesome people on the way home in the train and didn't get home until 9. It was a good day though!

Thursday:
We had a pretty good day. One thing that happened was when we were on our way home we had a few extra minutes so we decided to look up this potential from the elders named Carly. Well when we pulled up and parked by her house the elders pulled up right then as well. Since they were planning on looking her up at that exact time too, we all went up together.
We knocked and then we heard her say "the missionaries are here. I don't want them to be here! Make them leave!" So her boyfriend came out and told us all to leave haha it was awesome though because if we would have been 5 minutes earlier or later than the elders then we all would have been yelled at separately which would have made it worse. So luckily we all got there together and got yelled at together. It was much more okay. Haha

Friday:
We had zone conference and it was AWESOME. It was president and sister Morgan's last zone conference and we were the last session(the city missionaries had it Tuesday, middle section of the mission had it Thursday, we had it Friday). Anyway, it made it that much better!
We had a few trainings and had some really good talks from the Morgan's and the APs. Sister Morgan introduced the smiths to us and showed us lots of pictures. They made me really excited to meet them. The smiths have an 11 year old boy, 13 year old girl and 15 year old girl. The 15 yr old is super cute already so within the next three years that will be trouble for those poor 18 yr old elders who haven't locked their hearts yet! Haha
At the end of the conference Sister Morgan had all the sisters write little notes for sister Smith (new mission presidents wife) so that she could get mail in the MTC. How cute is that?
As you probably have seen, we have been authorized to use Facebook again. I'm excited because we have SO many people that we can't see very often because they live so far away and aren't progressing enough for us to see them a lot or "stop by" but they use Facebook a ton so now we can contact them easily. At first I was kinda bummed to be getting it back because it adds so much more responsibility and it's so easy to waste time one it but then President told us that if we don't want to use Facebook then we don't want to follow the prophet and therefore don't want to follow God. So I really want to use Facebook now! Haha. We aren't allowed on newsfeed or anything and we have a set amount of time per day to use it so it's all good. Our mission has also been given the NYC subway ap and the MTA transit ap so those both are really handy and helpful!
So as you know, the mission motto was "loyal to the CORE" meaning courage, obedience, reverence, and effort. There were 4 zones at the conference so president had an elder and a sister talk about each one...well as luck would have it, I got called up to give a talk on obedience! Wow, embarrassing. I really didn't think I would get called, which is of course why I did get called, and didn't really prepare a great talk. I'll send you what I sort of threw together. It was..something. Hahaha oh well, it's done and over and there were some very interesting ones so it's alllll good.
Anyway, so president talked about recommitting to being a consecrated missionary and he gave us a few points---exact obedience, cast fear from your hearts, lock your heart, increase faith, give up pride, forsake negativism and sarcasm, and go the extra mile.
Then at the end of the conference he was speaking to us and he said "alright look me in the eyes and I'll look you each in the eyes. Pretend like we are having a one on one conversation. If we were, I'd tell you how much I love you and am proud of you and the work you have done.." And he just went on and on. He was crying, I was crying, everyone else was crying. Wow it was pretty bad! Haha it was so awesome though and the Spirit was SO strong. He really has been such a blessing for each of us and has impacted us missionaries so greatly.

Saturday
Wow it was an awesome day.
We saw crystal and Patricia again! The ones that came to church. We set a date for Crystal to get baptized on July 5th so that's exciting for her! She is SO cute. She wants to get baptized so badly. The spirit was so strong as we read the Book of Mormon stories with her. She loves it so much.
Afterwards we went to Jaime and Max's house where we had an incredible lesson. They are such a golden family and they just need to get baptized. But they teach us patience because they want to take it sllloooowwww. Which is fine, but they are so awesome. So Max was busy at first but then he came and joined us for the lesson. So we showed him the earthly father Heavenly Father video since he wanted to know where a fathers video was when we showed a Mother's Day video on Mother's Day. He loved it so much and so did she but he was all in it and watched it twice even. Then we read from the Book of Mormon with her and she told us about how she has really felt a difference and seen a Change in her life since she has been meeting with Us. She said she feels more peace and gratitude and it's really helping her. How awesome is that!? we are giving them a children's Book of Mormon stories so that they can read with their kids every night and she is really excited about that because she wants them to know how to pray and know who God is. After the incredible lesson where the spirit was so strong, we played with the boys for like 12 ish minutes. They always beg us to play at the beginning so we tell them after the lesson we will. Jaime and max are so grateful that we do. They love seeing us play with them and it means a lot to them so we do it. We dropped off a doughnut and balloon for Jullian(the 7 yr only boy) for his birthday and they were so grateful for that as well so it was cool to see. Anyway, we have a good time with their perfect almost Mormon family.
At dinner we had a bbq outside and they had these vines. So sister Groberg was like "oh can I swing on it?" And they said yes they always do. She asked me to spot her as she did, just in case. So I did.....I'll send you the video of the rest... :)
***video next week***
We ended up home early because Sister Groberg wasn't feeling so great after that. Haha so sad!

Sunday
We got to visit 3 less active families who all needed us SO badly. They broke down in tears while we were teaching them because they were so grateful we were there. It was really neat to see their love for the gospel and their desires to come back to church.
At church we talked about how we can make the sacrament more holy which was really interesting and good to think about.

Monday
So I went to the Chiropractor again! So he gave me my xrays! I'll send them to you. My neck is 75% off. Awk.. So it's like way more forward than it should be and when I look down the cervical vertebrae don't line up smoothly. Look at the X-ray picture and you'll understand. He had a program on his computer that showed two lines of where it should be and where it is but I didn't get those emailed to me so I tried to make them up from memory so that's what hose are. They aren't exact but they are just from me and what he showed. Anyway, they are still cool. So he just adjusted me again and I'll go back on Thursday (next week) since Wednesday is transfers so Monday will be a crazy day preparing for transfers as always.
At night we felt like we should look up this family so we did and we met Kayla. Kayla needed the Spirit right then and so us sharing a message with her helped to really uplift her. She hasn't been to church in years but seemed to really want to go back so hopefully she will come on Sunday. She loved the message and asked us to come back and show the rest of her family. She also asked us to pray with her and write down the scriptures we used so she could find them again. The lord definitely guided us there so that was incredible to see.

Tuesday
We had such an awesome day. We went to visit a less active and it went really well. They are actually headed to California today though so we had to keep the visit short so they could pack. So we had like 15 minutes after and decided to tract around that area. So we picked which houses to go to. We knocked on two doors and both opened and both were awesome. It was so cool to teach them and just have the Lord guide us to the two people on that street that needed us right then.
We had Cleaning inspections which was really good because this place needed a deep clean. I always love when it's really clean.
Anyway, the rest of the day was Awesome. We met so many Awesome and prepared people. We had some incredible lessons And met with a lot of our investigators. For dinner we are at a less actives and they made us this delicious healthier version of lasagna. It was SO good. Probably the best kind I've ever had. He's a chef so he made it, and we are going back in two weeks to have something different!
We met some really interesting and crazy people while Tracting after dinner as well, but also got another new investigator who is so ready to learn. Ya it was just a really good day. That didn't tell you much, but just know that I love being a missionary. It's the best.

Wednesday
Today for pday we are going Fishing and having a BBQ! I'm excited. We have had a lot of BBQs lately so i love that.


This week I studied family prayer a little bit! At church we talked about how we should pray for our crops and animals and daily work and I thought about how dad always asks us to pray for him. The teacher asked us how many of us pray for our family members to get more work or keep up with the work that they already have and not many people raised their hands. I just thought it was cool to know that dad has always taught us to pray for him and the work he has so that concept wasn't foreign for me. In the October 2014 General Conference talk "make the exercise of faith your first priority" It says "Family prayer should be a nonnegotiable priority in your daily life."
I am SO grateful that we had family scripture and prayer each night even if some nights we forgot. It really has made an impact on me. I'm sorry for the times where I grudgingly went  downstairs for family prayer because of homework or something lame but I can assure you that I have changed! :) I absolutely love kneeling down with families after the lesson and praying with them and feeling the power that comes from it. Prayer is the best.

I love you all so much. Have a wonderful week! And Happy Fathers Day to all the dads out there, but especially to mine! :)

Love,
Sister Tanner <3










Wednesday, June 10, 2015

Frog legs and escargot just for fun!

Hello again!

First of all, Happy birthday Shayla (6/15) And Jax (6/13)!! I'll be thinking of you on your birthdays :) I love you both! Have a fabulous day!! 
Alright So today I am going to the temple again because my companion is going to see Les Miserables today (our mission president allows us to see a Broadway show at the end of our missions) since she goes home soon. Lame that I can't go yet but cool for her! And I'm glad to be going to the temple :) So I'm on a split with some other sisters down here in Manhattan :) it's a party I must say. 
On Friday we will be getting Facebook back and it will be our last zone conference with president and sister Morgan! Afterwards we are having one last sisters conference as well so Friday will be a good day :) I'm excited. I think the zones that had zone conference yesterday already got FB but I'm not sure.

This week was good! We met a lot of awesome people Tracting, had some incredible lessons with less active members and new investigators, and had a lot of fun. 

THURSDAY 
Planned and got ready for alma activity. Looked up less actives super awesome.  Went out tracting and we accidentally tracted into someone's back door thinking it was the front door. They were so confused again. I don't know how we keep doing that! They lived on a corner so we went to the door closest to where we were Tracting but it turns out their front door was on the other side.
The houses are weird though. A lot of times Within each house there are like 3 or 4 houses. So when Tracting a lot of times we will try opening the door to see if there is stairs to more doors. Sometimes it's actually the front door and you just hope they don't see you or hear you opening their front door. The houses are just crazy. It's fun though 

FRIDAY 
We met some incredible less active families and they all agreed to coming to church next week so that's awesome. Their testimonies are so incredible. They just fell out of the habit of going to church and slowly things went down hill but they are on their way back up. It's awesome. 
We also had a Skype call to plan the Alma activity a bit more and finalize things and what not. It's so cool how we can do missionary work in this digital age. We used 7 iPads and a phone to plan an activity with other missionaries none of which served in the area where we set it up. So cool. 
For dinner we went to this super fancy restaurant to try frog legs. The meals there were 60 each and we spent 10 dollars each haha we got Frog legs and escargot just for fun. We were the only ones in the restaurant too. They hated us since we didn't get much. Oh well haha

SATURDAY
We woke up bright and early, 4am, left at 5am, and headed to the city for the Alma academy! We all met in Stamford and then we traveled together with the APs down to Manhattan. It was such a cool day! 
So the plan was for me and sister Groberg to work in a trio for the day but then last minute another girl showed up and she didn't have a companion and so I got to be with her. Her name is Aubree and she is so cute and so awesome! We had the most incredible companionship study that morning all about faith and I just saw myself in her so much. She is headed to BYU this fall and plans on putting her papers in in January as well because her birthday is in April so she wants to go after a year of school. Her testimony is incredible. When we did roll plays with the other missionaries everyone was blown away at how strong the spirit was when she testified. So after our breakfast, comp study and some trainings, roll plays and activities, we had lunch and then headed out to contact for like 3 hours. Let me tell you, afterwards all the youth were like "we are SO tired, how do you do this everyday!?! You guys are amazing" Haha it was cute. 
So the first contacting APF we did was focused on family history, we talked to some awesome people but it was pretty hard, as always. Lots of rejections of course, but those people that did stop and talk were awesome. we pretty much helped people to start doing their family history work since a lot of people are interested in that. 
The second APF was the Book of Mormon one that I did before and that one was so much fun. We talked to some really incredible people and were able to testify of the Book of Mormon a lot. Aubree was able to give out her first few copies of the Book of Mormon and explain what is is all about to them. One guy told us we should probably go get married instead, but it's fine haha. I think the youth were able to really see how missionary work is super hard and we get rejected way more than people listen, but it is so rewarding. The happiness that comes from sharing the gospel is just so incredible. Overall i think she had a really good time. I learned so much from Aubree in the few hours we were companions. I know she will be an incredible full time missionary as well. I absolutely love this gospel and I know the Book of Mormon is the word of God. I know that we can find comfort and peace from reading and praying about the Book of Mormon and the things we learn from it each day. 
It was really cool to see the youth who were fasting and praying about whether they should go on a mission or not, receive their answers to go at the activity as we took them out with us contacting and studied with them. Ya it was a really fun day. 

To end the day we went to stake conference which was SO amazing. The speakers were like general conference status. I want to get them printed to reread them all the time. Something cool was that Elder Gordon H. Smith of one of the quorums of the Seventy talked about how he has worked with so many mission presidents. He said they were all excellent but that he has never seen a better mission president than president and sister Morgan. And he said it so genuinely and you could tell he doesn't just say that to everyone. Seriously, everyone loves president and sister Morgan. They are just the best ever. I love em. 

SUNDAY
Sunday we had Stake conference again! It was super good again. I love stake conferences. They are incredible. I learned so much and received so much personal revelation as I listened. The Spirit really does speak to us as we attend church when we seek it out. 
That night Sister Groberg got to skype into a baptism of a kid that she taught in one of her past areas. There were like 6 or 7 missionaries skyping in since they were taught for so long but it was really cool to see. It made for a great Sunday. 

MONDAY
We had cleaning checks for our cars and one requirement was that it had to be washed within the last week. Well we washed the inside on pday but not the outside. So we went to the Car wash on the way and asked for just the outside cheapest one. They looked at us like we were crazy since it was raining. Right after the car wash, it started pouring rain so hard. But we could still say we washed it so we were happy! Haha 
After district meeting we headed to the Chiropractor down in the city! It was really fun. We were looking for a parking garage when we ended up getting forced onto a bridge..that went to queens.. Well queens is out of our mission so that was awkward. We drove over the bridge into queens and then got right back on it and drove back. That's twice now that I have left the mission! First to Jersey and now to queens. Oh well, it was an accident! 
Okay so the chiropractor was really fun. I've never had my neck adjusted before but it felt so nice. I didn't know you can pop or crack or whatever that much at once! So I went to Dr. Arbuckle who I actually knew from serving in the city. He was like "wait, I know you!" I worked a lot with his daughter when we went to activity days as well so it was fun. He is awesome too. He is super positive and fun and really nice. And he said that it's free for missionaries so that's good. 
Don't worry, when he asked me my pain, I said 8! And then my comp and I quoted some Brian reagan and told dr Arbuckle to watch it since he has never seen it and was really confused why we thought it was awesome to say 8. 
So ya he took some X-rays of my spine and found some stuff that needs some fixing and so I have to go down once a week to the city, it's sweet cuz I love the city and I love when he cracks everything in my body and X-rays my spine, but it's lame cuz it takes a lot of time to get there and back.

TUESDAY
We had a referral from the elders for this girl they found Tracting so we went and had a lesson with her. Her boyfriend came too and they both loved it. They met at their church but have only been attending for about a year and so they were really open to learning more. Turns out the girl knows all the Mormon kids and she wanted to ask one of the boys to prom haha she thinks he is so cute and sweet (he is kind of awkward) and she knew he probably wouldn't go to prom. But he ended up going on trek and so she didn't ask him haha but it was cool to see how big of an impact he made on her along with the other Mormon girls. Little do they know, the elders tracted into her and now we are teaching her! Her name is Cassie.

We also got a Media referral from church headquarters for a girl named Jessica who requested a bible so we looked her up. It turned out to be the most legit media referral I have ever received. We went to her house and a man answered so we asked for Jessica. Normally they said "nobody by that name lives here" but he didn't. He got Jessica and she came out and was like "oh wow! I didn't know I actually followed through with that. And I didn't know I would get a free book and new friends out of the deal! So we ended up giving her the bible, and threw in a Book of Mormon of course, and set up a time to meet with her again! She has never been religious but something on Instagram caught her eye right when she needed it most and so she decided she wants to learn about God and read the bible. She absolutely loved it. It was such a blessing and miracle and definitely a highlight to the day.
We also volunteered at a senior home place and one of the old lady's told me that when my companion goes home that I need to get a boy companion instead hahah I told her I'll work on it. It was awesome. 

We also had a big flash flood..again.. That seems to happen a lot here. I guess that's why it's so green. We went into a building for like a minute and it was sunny and then we came out and it was pouring like crazy. we ran to the car and we still were soaked. 

WEDNESDAY 
So like I said, today I get to go to the temple again which is AWESOME. I'm so glad we have a temple in our mission that we can go to so often. It is such a blessing! 

This morning I was thinking and studying about obedience because we all have to prepare a talk on obedience for zone conference. There is a quote I love that I don't think I shared with you yet.. but anyway it says "On the straight and narrow path there are no corners to be cut." I know that's so true. We can't choose what commandments we follow and what things we do or don't want to do and not expect consequences. We have to hold to the rod and do things Gods way if we want to return to him. We can't forget commandments altogether and expect it to "not matter" 
I know how important obedience is. It's always the cool thing to do. I know obedience brings true happiness. I've definitely seen that in my mission. We can always improve and be more obedient as well. As we strive to be obedient everyday, God blesses us and helps us to feel His love more abundantly. I love being a missionary, I love this work. I love you all! Have a great week! Xoxox 

Love, 

Sister Tanner <3